I hate true luv !! ..bcos its begrudge (always restricts our wish)

True luv is often defined as giving something to someone without any expectation.
Let’s consider this in 2 ways.
1) Nobody can luv without expectation.
2) Nothing is true when u r in luv.
Let me elaborate it..
2) If we are true in luv then it wont be sweet as fruitful as its in other case, say if ur girl/boy friend has brought new expensive dress on his/her first salary and wants to show that to u, and the situations is u don’t like that dress at all. What will be ur reaction on such case? say its ur gal friend, Her question is how the new dress is? U know that she will expect artifacts. But u want to say NO, this will make her to frown and may change the mood of her and will spoil ur outing, so u will say its Okay it looks nice, although u don like it this is very small scenario in which people fail to react truly before the marriage also they will fail to continue this after marriage. Understandings, giving ups to ur loved ones will make the situation happy and even strengthen your relationship but the thing is like this small false impression is going to add values to ur luv, ultimately we are not true, we are cheating our self this will continue even.It clearly shows that often luv restricts our wish, it will bring the situation and make us to act, force to go wrong, there by failing to return true. Luv doesn’t allow one to live as per their wish instead he/she need to do each and everything with respect to his/her loved one. living for others is wat luv but implied we shuld not have to expect anything inturn.
1) When you say your boy/gal friend have betrayed what does it mean? May be they have cheated. He/she would have lied, its something like they didn’t give back what u expected. My question is why are you expecting from ur lovable friend? Guys expecting in turn is not luv. It’s just an agreement or promises that comes under duty or work/job.
May be parent’s luv their children truly without expecting anything, but in future if their full blown children don’t care them or say when they want to have their life partner as per their wish not as per their parents. In many cases parents will start to curse them. It’s happening we can see these things. Running out of the house and getting married is called as an offence as per the parents not by law u know why law will even fail to prove this as wrong. So parents expect their children’s to live as per their wish which they gonna select not allowing their childrens on their way. Why they are expecting when they say that they luv their children’s. Is it not contradicting to the true luv definition?
We luv our parents more than anybody else, Why?? Parents give us care, shelter, food, money, many other things and we know that they gonna do us anything and everything. Children’s just realize their generous, kindness and show them back their affection. Just think is it not GIVE BACK POLICY??
          I have seen some childrens hating their parents due to some reasons.There are some places where parents think that their children’s are burden so they fail to help them in childhood, may be because of this he/she would have not achieved highs in his life. Do u think will this children give all the support to their parents like others. Don’t say nope they do, some answer back up by leaving a note its all b cos of blood relation. Dear sir/madam Blood has got nothing to do with luv relationship. Blood cannot create/bring luv, Blood cannot change the behavior say from Sad to glad or from smart to stupid. It’s just a factor which helps our biological process. If its so then people would have changed their blood at every cause. We luv our friends too who doesn’t come under our blood or our gene group.
          Coming on to Lovable friends, conceptuality the situation is like u have some faith on ur lovable friends. U do help, spend time, spend money, with ur close friends. why it has been always with just close friends not with others because they have done something to u or they will do something to u in future then Where comes heart, why people say like i luv my friend whole heartedly. It’s just a give back policy. It’s not a chemical reaction or biological bonding. Say if ur close friend doesn’t turn up on our marriage. You will start detesting him right?. Expectation varies but people expect atleast something from their loved one.Wishing him/her on the V' day, B'day etc.
Guys we see people dying for their loved ones, its because they have expected something and they didt get that. Piteous people may be i can use misfortune guys who have failed to understand the concept of true luv, u no need to show up ur luv by dying out.
If we are true in everything, then it won’t be gud. May be it will change the definition/meaning of the luv itself. Truly speaking everyone will do things only with some expectation. There is nothing called true luv that’s why I hate when I hear people saying that their luv is true.. Luv can be true only if its one side, giving everything to your loved one without any expectation, if its 2 way then it would come under Give back policy.